Sexual Problems

Well, right now approximately 10% of men experience this problem all or part of the time so if this affects you then now is the time to do something about it.

It is such a shame that society commands that men be sexual wonderbeasts which just puts a huge amount of pressure on "performance" and this is where I come in. I provide effective, confidential and understanding therapy with no drugs, no gadgets and I can use NLP and Hypnotherapy to rapidly treat the problem with the minimum of fuss.

This is a sensitive and not frequently talked about condition which can seriously affect your self esteem and can sometimes affect relationships and in extreme cases end them.

Many clients tell me that their early sexual experiences were often rushed and that precipitated the problem. I have also met clients who have led happy and fulfilled sex lives and then somehow premature ejaculation just appeared and the harder they tried to stop it the worse it got.

NLP and Hypnotherapy have significantly assisted many clients to learn to control excitement without affecting their erection and to sustain performance until a time when they wish to ejaculate.

It is often easier to discuss this with a woman rather than having to admit to another man that there may be a problem.

I have treated many clients with varying sexual problems, so just contact me for a confidential inital consultation.

You can call on 07956 895 171 or use the form below

You would not believe how many men suffer from this at some point in their lives and later in life, due to physiological changes, it can happen more frequently from the age of 50 onwards. Of course, there are a number of medical conditions and medication which can cause erection problems, so see your GP first and if all that is clear, then it's time to look at other methods of treatment.

However, for some clients it can be a matter of pressure. The problem for men is that they are expected to "perform" and if they don't, then they tend to feel as though they are not man enough and even though many might take that lightly, for the sufferer, it is a very disturbing problem which can eat away at confidence in their overall abilities and masculinity. This is mostly due to social conditioning and peer pressure along with the fact that very few men openly admit that they have this problem.

If you happen to have this probelm, you could pretty safely bet that one of your peer group will have had the problem as well at some point so, I can tell you, you are not alone.

So - what is it that causes the problem? It can be a number of things but frequently it's a case of confidence and/or pressure. It can also be due to one experience where it happened and you are so worried that it will happen again you create a cycle, where you get nervous and of course, it happens again. It then builds up from there into a repetitive problem.

It can also be a case of lack of self confidence in your ability or perormance. Worries that you may be "judged" by your partner or your performance, if you happen to not be as experienced as your partner or if they had a previous partner who, in your eyes, was a major sexual predator and you worry you can't live up to that.

There are many ways to treat this problem. Mainly, we work on the sufferer's self esteem and self perception, and once these are improved, they become more relaxed and able to sustain an erection quite happily without worry. If it is a repetitive cycle problem then we find the sequence of events that started it and then stop the cycle. Hypnosis and NLP techniques can make a huge difference to these issues and I do see a number of men with problems like this who feel they have no one else they can seek help from.

This is a drug free, non pressured therapy and not only do you improve your sexual confidence but also your confidence in many areas of your life so you get more than just that specific treatment.

If you would like a confidential discussion then please call me on 07956 895 171 or email me.

Relationship problems can also affect you. You may not necessarily find your

partner unattractive but if you have any negative nagging thoughts lurking then

it can be difficult to really relax and enjoy your time with them.

If you want to move on from an issue that you can't seem to let go of, or have memories that seem to haunt you then we can deal with that very easily and effortlessly. I use Time Line therapy and Hypnosis for this and this allows you to let go of the unwarrented emotions attached to events or to work out some problems that may still be in the back of your mind.

If you would like to discuss this then please contact me.

Many women find it difficult and sometimes impossible to reach orgasm with a partner. This is a very common problem and from a physiological of point of view many women don't reach orgasm from penetration purely. Many drugs can affect the seratonin levels and make it very difficult for many women (and men) so before you take this any further, check your medication for anything which may affect you.

Commonly women can reach orgasm on their own but with a partner it just never seems to happen and maybe other thoughts are entering into your mind during sex or you may be feeling self conscious in some way. The ability to relax is the main key to being able to fully enjoy sexual relations to their conclusion and it is not always that easy.

Depending on previous experiences which maybe have not been great, past history of abuse of trauma or a feeling of self consciousness this can affect how you are feeling with your partner and your ability to relax.

I have worked with many women who have similar difficulties for a vast number of different reasons. Again, working with self esteem, better self perception and relaxation techniques can greatly enhance that time with your partner and can lead to orgasm during sex.

Simple and straight forward NLP technqiues and hypnosis generally help these problems a great deal so that you can enjoy the experience rather than worry about how your partner is seeing you, what you are like compared to a previous partner they have been with etc etc.

Relationship problems can also affect how we feel about our partners and sometimes situations can take time to progress from.

This is where our techniques really come into their own as I can help to move on from something in the past really holding you back that you wish you would forget, whether it is with your present partner or from a past situation.

Time Line therapy can remove those unwarranted negative emotions and let you be "in the moment " when you really want to be and not having flashbacks or sudden negative emotional rushes.

Unresolved issues with a partner can also affect us greatly with regards to sex and again we can work with this confidentially to let you be able to be touched and touch them in return.

If you would like to discuss this further then please call me on 0161 320 9235 or 07956 895 171 in confidence

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